we as a society need to start talking about abusive friendships, bc those exist and seem to be really common
and most people in them dont know how do deal w the abuse bc its normally emotional abuse which gets delegitimized, and its a platonic relationship and not a romo or sexual one, so it gets delegitimized for that too
if I see u spreading “calums nudes” I will unfollow u no one deserves to have that happen to them
You know what I hate? When people get pissed off when you tell them you don’t want them to touch you. Like excuse me, I don’t actually want you to touch my arm. I don’t want a hug right now. I don’t give a shit if you’re family. I don’t care if the phrase “I don’t want to be touched” puts you off. Just don’t fucking touch me.
if u leak someone’s nudes u are a piece of shit